Valentines, a time for chocolate, roses and an overwhelming amount of bitterness from the people who don’t have a significant other to share the Hallmark holiday with.
Sure, Valentines day is a corporate holiday created to make money but it seems like it’s here to stay, so why not make the best of it.
Valentines day doesn’t have to be just about romantic love, but also the every day kind of love.
The love you feel for the barista who makes your coffee every morning, therefore saving you from the sleep deprived sadness that was about to strike at any minute. The love you feel for scary movies and peanut butter sandwiches and wind chimes may not make your heart beat faster, but they are things that make you happy.
Love doesn’t have to be measured in overzealous romantic gestures but in the little things that make your day a little bit better.
The contents of my 6 year old purse reveal the things I love: crumpled coffee receipts, a ticket from a movie I saw with my dad and my favorite red nail polish.
The lack of romantic love in my life isn’t a negative for me. While most girl yearn for the unrealistic romances straight from the pages of a Nicholas Sparks movie, this Valentines Day I want to be doing something I love. I will be with my family this year, which for me is better than any Ryan Gosling or Channing Tatum.