
I cannot even describe my love for people who act like they are your friend but in actuality spend their days discussing their absolute hatred towards you.
Honestly, it makes me laugh.
But I truthfully just don’t understand the reasoning behind it.
If I never asked you to be my friend and you simply say horrid things about me, then I obviously don’t care to be your friend.
So why fake it?
I believe that if you don’t want to be someones friend, than simply don’t.
If you don’t like someone, then don’t be rude, but simply don’t talk to them.
I just don’t understand why someone would take the time to pretend to be nice to you.
And I also have an issue with people who have such utter hatred towards you for no absolute reason.
If I don’t even talk to a person, then why would they even care about me?
Maybe it’s a person’s lack of happiness, or a life for that matter.
Or maybe their heart is just a tiny hardened piece of stone.
In actuality, I feel bad for these people.
For they can say as many things about a person and get as many people to side with their arrogant opinions. But in the end, at least I am not a selfish, conceded, arrogant jerk.
I thank these people for making me stronger, more confident, and more aware of the horrid people who exist in the world.
P. S.
Since you actually have the audacity to call me immature for blocking you on Facebook, I will have the audacity to tell you this.
You’re not my friend in real life, so why would I want to be your friend anywhere else.
two solutions:
1. Smother the person with kindness. Show them what they are missing by living your life to the fullest and embracing their personality.
2. Admit that the person accomplished what they set out to do ( i.e get your attention). Don’t let it happen again. You stooped down to their level in this blog.
I don’t think that she stooped down to any level. She was simply expressing some frustration through a blog post.
Anyways, I guess OVS does have some real aspects to it! Sucks, eh?
I read the blog and felt animosity. If it frustrates the blogger so much why would the writer strike back with venom? The person being called out is never identified. So isn’t the blogger literally talking badly behind the person’s back? I have no way to identify the culprit but I imagine the blogger’s peers know exactly who is being talked about. The teenage years are turbulent.
I wouldn’t call this venom. In all honesty, it is watered down compared to what could be said. It took control to write what was written above, and I’m proud of the way that it was stated. Not only was it controlled and serious, it was hard enough to get the point across properly.
Personally, I know the person that this is about, but I’d rather let it stay anonymous in order to not completely embarrass or offend that person. This is exactly the opposite of ‘talking behind someone’s back.’ If this person were to read this, he or she would immediately know that it was about him or her. I have no doubt that this person has read this blog. This person knows what he or she has done and has been called out on it before. I believe that this form of expression is far better than telling the whole school behind this person’s back. At least this is more direct.
Besides, this is someone’s person take on a ongoing situation. It isn’t your place or mine to judge and tell her how to behave. What’s done is done.
I agree “what is done is done”. I also respect the writer for sharing her story. I was trying to offer feedback on how to break away from the problem. Polkadots1112 stay strong!